John is using this sentence more and more: (Thank you, dear angels)
“That’s my job, Mom.”
In many little and important ways each day.
We continue to work on John’s chores.
These tasks have recently fallen off Mom’s list and gone to his:
Packing his school snacks.
Buying special purchases at the grocery store with his debit card (special account, small amount).
Packing / unpacking and zipping / unzipping his backpack.
Seriously—John is now constantly puttering with the backpack, putting stuff in and taking it out.
For the first time in his life!
Meanwhile, I stay vigilant to anything I should quit doing for him.
The timing is important: We can train for independence.
So when he (finally) voluntarily chooses to do anything,
Mom has to let go fast!